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Working in tech, we all feel a little lonely, frustrated, or burnt out sometimes

What if things could be different?

The Party is a community for curious, compassionate tech folks, people who feel deeply, think a lot, and care hard.Through games, storytelling, and meaningful conversation, we experiment with soft skills, support each other, and explore what it means to be human and how to make work actually work for us.

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The Party is a community of lifelong learners, here for real connections, play, and growth

A community made of Professional Humans

What's a professional human? You! We are emotional, playful, quirky, and always growing.The Party brings together folks in tech to grow through play, connect through games, and support each other so we can bring more peace and joy into how we work and live.

Join the party for...

  • a space to explore yourself through games, workshops, creative play, and role-playing designed to challenge us and develop soft skills

  • daily discussions where we learn, teach, and grow through shared experiences and humor

  • a supportive network where you can be you, make friends, and level up without the stress of perfection

  • monthly topics and small group events

"This community sounds much needed. I know plenty of people who need this, including me."

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-Jake Kidd
Research and Design

Professional humans in The Party benefit from...

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Events

From discussions and coworking sessions to workshops, Q&As, and hackathons, there’s always something happening.

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Games

Level up your soft skills through collaborative games designed just for the community, popular games, and role-playing games. All while having fun!

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Discussion Channels

Daily questions, memes, voice rooms, group support, game planning, and the like! Connect with folks like you and learn from others.

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Discounts and Perks

Early access to major quests (think conferences, retreats), special discounts, and a locked-in membership rate for as long as you stay

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Member Led Events & Groups

Have an idea for a game, event, or discussion? Want to practice facilitation or presentation skills? Everyone is welcome to host events. You don't have to be an expert; just a professional human with something to share.

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Resources

Access a growing library of resources, from practical guides to job boards, all designed to help you navigate working in tech. Members are also welcome to contribute to the resource library.

A restful place for many folks

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How can
The Party help?

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I want to feel inspired again, but I don't have the energy

Reenergize through events, support, and resources. Make play part of your routine again through co-op games, skill building, and more so you can find ways to reignite that spark.


I don't know where to go for support

Bring your questions to our open hours or ask in the community; you're sure to find people who care.


I want to grow, but traditional professional development feels shallow or corporate

Join workshops, find peership, or get guidance from me or the community. Naturally grow skills by playing games.

I want to work on things like communication, collaboration, and resilience, but in a real and safe way

Join our workshops, games, and events to develop those skills with people who value growth and safety.


I feel disconnected, like I'm going through this alone

Meet new people, make some frieds, play games, and brainstorm solutions to our struggles.


I want to feel confident and trust myself

Be a part of discussions and games that allow you to explore ways to activate confidence and self-compassion.

Join the Party! Experience the power of play!

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Meet new folks!

The Party is a third space to bond with people over work experiences and a shared interest in games. There are many different ways to interact with the community. We're a support system of peers, mentors, and collaborators who want to help each other through challenges, celebrate wins, and have fun. Find an accountability buddy, a mentor, or just folks to play games with.

Not a gamer? That's okay!

Playing games is cool! But you don't need to have experience with games in order to join, only a willingness to be playful. We play a mix of non-digital collaborative and storytelling style games with some modern day digital games as well. We'll teach you everything you need to know to have fun!

Play for progress

Improve the soft skills that help create harmony at work through play. Soft skills are superpowers for protecting your peace and creating joy at work. The Party aims to create a playful space for everyone to experiment, try new things, and grow in an environment where it's safe to fail and play around.

Peace, joy, and community

Whether you’re new in tech, changing paths, or feeling stuck, there’s a place for you here. The Party is open to folks from all walks of life. The only requirement is that you work in a tech or tech-adjacent role, are respectful, and agree to the code of conduct. Together, we develop friendships, insights, and skills that pay off in life and work.

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Campfire

3rd Thursdays at 3pm

  • Exploring a monthly theme

  • Open conversation

  • Reflect, share, normalize


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Open Hours

3rd Sundays at 7:30pm

  • Personalized support

  • Drop by with a question

  • Get/give community advice

  • Share your feedback

Live Monthly Encounters

Ongoing, Eastern Time Zone


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Huddle Up!

Mondays Open 8am to 8pm

  • Live channel for coworking

  • Pop in and out

  • Chat or just chill


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Gaming Stream

2nd Tuesdays at 6:30pm

  • Live game stream

  • Hang out or join in!

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Games 4 Growth

4th Thursdays @ 3pm

  • New + existing games

  • Tabletop RPGs, digital, board, card games

  • Explore, practice, or stretch specific soft skills


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The Hearth

Last Friday of Every Month @ 4pm

  • Catch up

  • Share wins + not-so-wins

  • Get to know folks

  • Welcome new members!

"The gulf between my work and any sense of community is one of the reasons I left tech. I think Lissy is so cool for imagining a different way for folks to connect and reconsider how they relate to one another in an environment that most folks think has no room for people to actually be people."

-Michael Budram
Program Manager

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Lissy (She/They)
Founder of HuMindWise

A letter from the gamemaster

👋 Hi, I'm Lissy - professional human, lifelong gamer, and the person behind The Party.I want to share with you a little bit about why I'm building this community. It's definitely not because I have all the answers. I'm building it because I was asking myself the same questions you might be, too:

  • Why does work feel so disjointed?

  • Why am I so isolated, even surrounded by coworkers?

  • How can I get out of this slump and start growing again?

For over a decade, I've used play to teach, lead, and thrive - from designing soft skill games for teens to guiding teams through complex challenges, and taking charge of my own growth. I kept asking myself:Who said play needs to stop when we clock in? Who?!The adults who open themselves up to be a kid again experience creativity, connection, and growth in ways that make life and work more enjoyable. We were never meant to outgrow play. That's why the party exists: to create a space where we can learn from each other, play with possibilities, and practice the messy, meaningful stuff that makes us human, like we used to.Join The Party if you're ready for more play, more connection, and more growth in ways that make life more peaceful and joyful. Together, we can reimagine what it means to be a professional human.

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At the end of each month, expect:

  • Resources for building human skills, like communication, empathy, and love

  • Stories about making work and tech a better place

  • Occasional news about HuMindWise, like events, courses, and special perks

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"The Party is a workplace community for those that don't have one. Lissy is attempting to create the kind of space where people can grow, focusing on personal journey instead of productivity metrics and performance standards. I'm excited to play!"

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-Brad Sytsma
Product Manager

Hey! I'm available to chat

Let's meet online!

Have a question? Want to join the alpha phase? Just wanna meet? That's why I have coffee chats! Find a slot on my calendar.Feeling shy? Dude, me too! Try the scary thing anyway. 💙

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Power-up Through Play

Find ways to take charge of your professional peace

I offer playful courses and personal sessions designed for tech folks to build foundational skills for peace and joy at work

Solo Leveling

Playful mini-courses that help you reflect and develop

Core Values Quest is a playful way to level up your soft skills

Core Values Quest is a self-paced, game-inspired course with bite-sized video lessons, interactive challenges, and a custom character sheet. Reflect, experiment, and apply your skills in real scenarios. Plus, a built in community on the same quest!

Grow at your own pace, supported by others on the same quest

Curriculum

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1 | Jump in and start playing

Define your workplace challenge & create your first character draft.

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2 | Discover your core values

Identify what drives you and how it shapes your decisions.

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3 | Map strengths and values for growth

Recognize key skills and areas to improve that support your core values.

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4 | Play and apply

Test your character in scenarios and see firsthand how core values affect the workplace.

Core Values Quest is coming Summer 2025!

Join the Soft Skills, Big Feels newsletter to be the first to know when Core Values Skill Quest for a launch discount!

You can unsubscribe anytime. This is a monthly newsletter, but I might send the occasional extra note when something exciting comes up. And don’t worry, your info is safe with me, no selling or sharing, ever.

Power Up Together!

A small size cohort where you’ll learn from each other, play, and get one on one support to build confidence at work.

Thursdays, June 19th - Aug 7th

12 - 2p EST

$575

Are you ready to stop waiting for permission and start learning how to love the way your brain works?


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Introducing the Power Up Program!

Build confidence in the workplace

Join an 8 week small group cohort to help tech professionals work through imposter syndrome, speak up in meetings, and present ideas with confidence, even when you're on the spot.

Are you struggling with any of these?

  • You overthink every email, meeting, or presentation

  • You avoid speaking unless you’ve over prepared

  • You worry people will think you don’t know what you’re doing

  • You know you’re capable but you just don’t feel confident

You need a safe way to practice being confident.


Here's what you get:

  • Weekly live sessions with a small group (just 7 people)

  • Games and exercises to practice thinking on your feet

  • A 1:1 session with personalized feedback on a short presentation

  • Presentation strategies and self-reflection tools to continue building confidence beyond the program

A sneak peek of our Week 1 workshop, the North Star Guide

5 Star Sessions

100% of sessions rated 5 out of 5

Confidence Boost

Self-assessed confidence jumped from slight to significant improvement in just 5 weeks

Curriculum

Week 1Define your confidence goals
Week 2Rewire your confidence story & imposter patterns
Week 3Confidence at work: story, struggle, & strength
Week 41:1 coaching + low-stakes practice
Week 5Say & Slay: fast-thinking, fun communication game
Week 6Presentation skill-building - your style, not a script
Week 7Slidekicks: a fast paced surprise slides coop game
Week 8Final presentations, feedback, and next steps

Why it works

Confidence is a skill, not a personality trait; I believe it grows best in a supportive environment, with playfulness, laughter, and room to experiment.

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Safe practice, real growth

Trying new things can feel awkward at first. By creating a safe space with people you get to know, we build resilience and comfort with discomfort so you can experiment with confidence.

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Small cohort size of 7

In a small cohort, you get the attention and support you need. The program adapts to your group’s unique needs, focusing on what matters most to your growth, whether it’s confidence, communication, or overcoming imposter syndrome.

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Play changes everything

Play makes growth feel natural. It reduces stress, boosts creativity, and lets you practice new skills in a low-pressure environment. By turning challenges into games, you’ll build confidence faster, learn naturally, and have fun while doing it.

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A Power Up Program participant

Heather Vogl
Admin Assistant

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Bonus

Lifetime board access

A shared digital whiteboard with your north star guide, resources, and exercises from our weekly sessions that create your toolkit. You'll have access to edit and view this board beyond the program.($96 annual value)

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Bonus

Ongoing support

You'll have access to a secure, direct line to me for things you want to address in future sessions, questions, or talking things out between sessions.($250 value)

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Bonus

Pilot Program Perks

The Power Up Program has helped folks grow their confidence working one on one with me. Now it’s evolving into a group experience to make it more affordable, community driven, and impactful. Join this first cohort and save!Your rate: $575 / future cohorts: $825 ($250 value)

↑ $596 of bonus value ↑


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    Thursdays, June 19th to Aug 7th
    12-2p EST

    $575

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    Who is this for?

    This is for tech and product professionals, like devs, designers, or scrum masters, who want to playfully build more confidence at work with others on the same quest. Adults at any experience level are welcome.

    Not directly in tech? No worries. Soft skills matter in every job. If you’re open to growth, I’ve got your back.


    What is the schedule?

    We will meet every Thursday between June 19th and August 7th, except for the week of July 10th, where instead of meeting as a group, I will ask each person to schedule a one on one with me on either Thursday or Friday of that week.Each session can be anywhere from 1 - 2 hours depending on topic. I add a little wiggle room to make sure we have time for everything and everyone.


    What kind of support do I get between sessions?

    Got a question, a win, or something you need to vent about? I’m just a message away. You'll be able to get in touch with me through our safe and secure community.I only ask that you give me up to 24 hours to respond to a direct message.

    What happens if I miss a session?

    All the sessions are temporarily stored, but private, so that you can catch up on a missed session. I will also be available to answer any questions.


    What is the refund policy?

    I want this program to help you grow. If it doesn’t feel like it's working, you can request a refund(minus stripe fees) up to 30 days from the first class.


    What if I can't cover this out of pocket right now?

    This program can benefit you and your employer at less than the cost of a conference ticket. You can use this email template to ask your manager for their support in covering the program.I also offer a 3 month payment plan. To set this up, contact me.If you are excited about this program but can't afford a seat, I offer one seat per cohort at a Pay What You Can rate. Contact me for more info.


    Can you run this program just for my team?

    Yes, I can help your team grow! As a private cohort, it can include 1 - 8 people. Submit the contact form for corporate pricing.

    Your Gamemaster

    Professional Human, Lissy

    👋 Hi, I'm Lissy! Over the last 10 years, I've worked with both big enterprises and small startups, leading digital product teams, mentoring across tech roles, and collaborating with others facing the challenges of today’s workplace. Along the way, I’ve learned that real success comes when we’re supported as whole people, not just employees.I know what it feels like to be stuck, stressed, and overwhelmed. Through play, I’ve brought a human touch to the corporate world that helped me grow, find balance, and discover my own flow. Now, I use that experience to help you naturally grow and develop the skills that lead to joy in any job.I can't wait to work together!

    Read more about my story and why HuMindWise exists

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    Power up your confidence

    $575

    7 of 7 seats left

    Thursdays
    June 19 - Aug 7

    12-2p EST

    Co-Op Mode

    You're player one and I'm player two. Let me help you beat the next level!

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    One on Ones

    Need immediate support for a work challenge, roadblock, or soft skills boost?I offer one on ones to tackle what’s on your mind and help you walk away with clear next steps.

    $175 per session

    Who it's for

    • Tech professionals feeling stuck, unheard, or uncertain about their next move

    • Anyone who wants actionable advice about imposter syndrome, communication, boundaries or other soft skill topics

    • Folks looking for a thoughtful, non-judgmental space to work through challenges

    How It Works

    • One 50-minute virtual session by zoom or phone. No long-term commitment needed

    • Custom exercises & insights tailored to you

    • Follow-up resources to keep the progress going

    People say really nice things about working with me

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    Is this right for me?

    If you’re in tech and feeling stuck, stressed, or like you’re shouting into the void at work, this is for you. Designers, developers, PMs, any tech or tech adjacent role is welcome here.Being a non-binary Latine woman, I am familiar with some of the trauma and struggles of being part of a minority group in tech. Having come up against some of these barriers, I am uniquely qualified to provide support to minorities.


    Is there a code of conduct?

    All participants agree to abide by our Code of Conduct and Terms of Use.


    Can I get a refund?

    Due to the nature of the service, I do not offer refunds, but if I truly cannot help or am not equipped to help, I will refund your money, minus stripe fees.

    How are sessions conducted?

    I prefer to meet over a video call, but sessions can be conducted offline, in-person locally (Lansing or Grand Rapids, Michigan), through chat, or by phone. Sharing your camera on video calls is nice, but not required.
    For those requesting chat services, session time is doubled. Please contact me directly for booking.


    What does a session look like?

    After signing a short, plain language contract and submitting an intake form, we meet for our session where you set the agenda. We can talk through a recent challenge at work, prep for something coming up (like a presentation or tough conversation), or work on a specific skill.I believe that everyone is an expert in themselves. I pull from my experience as a tutor, researcher, and teacher, which means I’m skilled at listening closely, asking the right questions, and offering guiding strategies. I’m here to help you reflect, reframe, and grow in ways that feel right to you.I also provide a safe space to feel heard and help you process and unpack difficult moments.

    Get in touch with me!

    Have questions about the courses, power-up program, or something else? Feel free to reach out!

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    Resources on your journey

    Try on some of the resources from our community, The Party

    Here's a taste of a few resources from our growing library

    Free Resources

    Games

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    Slidekicks

    Work cooperatively to present a slidedeck you've never seen before, with no prep at all! If this gives you the heebie jeebies, don't worry! It's fun chaos designed to help you speak confidently and think on your feet.

    Worksheets

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    Making Meaning at Work

    Nine out of 10 employees say they would trade a portion of earnings to feel like their work has purpose.Before you do that, try this worksheet. By the end, you should have an idea of how you can add more meaning, and more joy to your day, no matter what your job is or how much you like it.

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    Quest for Joy

    Joy is a profound state of happiness that is easier to find. Did you know that you can learn to conjure joy in the moment?The first step is knowing what brings you joy! And practicing how to summon joy throughout your day. This worksheet can help you start.

    Get in touch with me!

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    What is HuMindWise and who is behind it?

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    Lissy (She / They)

    Game roots

    Hey folks! I’m Lissy, lifelong gamer, UX designer, and founder of HuMindWise.For over a decade, I've worked in tech, blending my love for play and design to create meaningful experiences. My journey with serious games began in college, where I designed games for inner city youth to develop soft skills naturally through play. This passion led me to Michigan State, where I earned a master’s in Human-Computer Interaction along with a certificate in Serious Games.After college, I was one of only two designers in my first job, and I had to learn on the fly how to persuade stakeholders, craft compelling stories, and advocate for my ideas, all while maintaining my sanity, my relationships, and my job. I had to create my own professional growth with little guidance, which created opportunity for me to figure out how to grow.

    The missing piece

    Beyond my first job, I worked on all sorts of teams - teams of one, embedded teams, central teams, chaos teams! Over the years, I learned that, for me and for many others, the tech world can be isolating, stressful, and overwhelming. Somewhere along the way, the focus on developing soft skills disappeared. These are foundational skills that we don't often find in schools, that require practice to master, and we can use to create more peace and joy in our work lives.Here’s the catch: developing these skills takes practice, psychological safety, and real social interaction, things that tech rarely makes space for these days.

    Why I created HuMindWise

    In 2024, after being laid off and facing my own burnout, I considered leaving tech for good. But conversations with friends, about their stories, their struggles, their exhaustion, pulled me back in with a new sense of purpose.I realized I couldn’t fix the corporate world overnight. But! I could create a space where we support each other, continue building on the skills we need, and make work feel human again.That’s where HuMindWise comes in.

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    What we're building together

    - A support system for navigating growth, self-doubt, and work challenges- A place where you can experiment, grow, and develop soft skills without the fear of failure.- A community powered by play, where professional growth feels more like an adventure than checking corporate boxes.

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    Play has always been my greatest teacher. From video games to board games to tabletop role playing games like Dungeons & Dragons, games have taught me about connection, collaboration, and being human. Now, I’m bringing those same principles into tech careers to help others turn their struggles into opportunities for joy and learning.So welcome to the campaign, the one where we build the support system we wish we had!

    Soft Skills, Big Feels

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    Soft Skills, Big Feels is a newsletter for folks working in tech (or tech-adjacent roles) interested in connection, talking about feelings, and being human at work.

    A Monthly Hug for your Inbox!

    At the end of the month, expect:

    • Resources for building human skills, like communication, empathy, and love

    • Stories about making work and tech a better place

    • Occasional news about HuMindWise, like events, courses, and special perks

    No spam, no fluff. Just a little support in your inbox monthly.See the latest issues

    You can unsubscribe anytime. This is a monthly newsletter, but I might send the occasional extra note when something exciting comes up. And don’t worry, your info is safe with me, no selling or sharing, ever.

    Code of Conduct

    A community built on play, growth, and respect

    At HuMindWise, we’re here to grow, experiment, and support each other in becoming better professionals and better humans. This is a space where learning happens through play, where we practice soft skills without fear of failure, and where we build meaningful relationships.Being here (using this site, participating in events or the community, and so on) means agreeing to co-create a space that is inclusive, energizing, and supportive. This isn’t about perfection; it’s about curiosity, accountability, and respect.Here’s how we make that happen together:

    We respect each other as human beings

    Every person here brings unique experiences, perspectives, and strengths. We welcome that diversity, and we create space for everyone to feel heard and valued.

    We commit to:

    • Treating each other with kindness and dignity

    • Engaging in curious, open-minded conversations

    • Giving each other grace to learn and grow

    We don't do:

    • Harmful language, harassment, or discrimination (including but not limited to racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, ageism, religious discrimination)

    • Personal attacks, bullying, or intimidation

    • Behavior that makes others feel unwelcome or unsafe

    What happens if someone crosses the line?

    If someone engages in harmful behavior, they will be removed from the community, events, courses, workshops, and coaching sessions without a refund. This is a space for growth, not harm, and that means prioritizing the well-being of our members.

    Authentic expression and language

    We encourage you to show up as your authentic self, including how you speak. If the occasional curse word is part of how you naturally express passion, humor, or emphasis, that’s totally fine.What matters most is respect. Language should uplift, not tear down. Avoid using strong language in a way that’s aggressive, harmful, or directed at others. Slurs and offensive language are never okay.TL;DR: Be yourself, speak freely, and keep respect at the heart of it all. 💙

    Community first means no self-promotion

    This is a space for connection, learning, and shared growth. We encourage discussions, idea-sharing, and supporting each other’s journeys, but outright self-promotion, unsolicited sales pitches, or using the community primarily for personal gain isn’t in the spirit of what we’re building. Self-promotion is allowed only in certain circumstances, with prior approval.

    1. Share your insights and experiences, not just your products or services.

    2. If someone asks for recommendations and your work is a relevant fit, that’s great! Just be mindful of intent.

    3. If you’re unsure whether something is appropriate to share, ask a moderator first.

    Our goal is to create a space where meaningful relationships can flower, not just basic networking transactions.

    A place for experimentation and play

    Learning and developing soft skills shouldn't feel like a performance. It should feel like an adventure!

    • You don’t have to be perfect here. This is a place to practice and try things out. But we do expect you to be curious, accountable, and open to feedback.

    • Mistakes are part of growth. We assume that others have good intentions. At the same time, we each take responsibility for the impact of our words and actions. Mistakes happen, and what matters is how we learn from them.

    • We explore, experiment, and play because that’s how we learn best.

    We learn from and teach each other

    No one has it all figured out, and that's the point!

    • Everyone here has something to offer, whether you’re new to soft skills, tech, corporate work or have years of experience.

    • We support each other because we want to, not because we expect something in return.

    • If you’ve learned something valuable, share it. If you need help, ask for it.

    This is a collaborative space, not a competitive one. We grow better together.

    Constructive feedback and navigating conflict

    Disagreements are part of learning! What matters is how we handle them:

    • Lead with kindness. If you have feedback, make it thoughtful and constructive.

    • No passive-aggressive side comments. Direct, honest conversations build trust.

    • If something feels off, talk about it. Conflict doesn’t have to be scary. It can be an opportunity for understanding and growth. You can reach out to the person directly or reach out to Lissy.

    This community isn’t about “calling out” but calling in to help each other grow while keeping respect at the center.

    We talk about systems, not partisan news

    We believe that real-world challenges, like bias, privilege, and workplace inequalities, deserve thoughtful discussion. Tech is not neutral, and neither are the challenges professionals face in the workplace. Racism, sexism, ableism, and other oppressive structures exist, and we will talk about them.This space is for:

    • Discussing how social systems impact our work and well-being

    • Learning how to navigate bias and inequality in professional spaces

    • Acknowledging that workplace struggles (like sexism, racism, and ableism) aren’t just personal; they’re systemic

    • Taking responsibility for our own learning so we don’t expect others to do emotional labor for us

    This is not a space for:

    • Conspiracy theories, political news debates, or divisive party-based arguments

    • Expecting marginalized people to educate others on demand

    • Discussions that derail into personal attacks rather than solutions

    If you’re unsure whether a discussion fits, ask yourself:
    “Is this about making work better, or is it just arguing about politics?”

    Above all, this is a community that values human rights. If you can't get behind that, this community is not a good fit for you.

    What’s shared here, stays here

    This is a space where people share their experiences, experiment with new skills, and open up about challenges. That requires trust and care.

    • Respect each other’s privacy. Stories shared here should stay here, unless you have explicit permission.

    • Share lessons, not names. If you want to talk about something you learned, do so in a way that protects others' privacy.

    Protecting our energy

    Growth can be exciting, but also challenging. We encourage everyone to:

    • Take breaks, set boundaries, and listen to what you need.

    • participate in a way that works for you. You don't to be present in every channel, event, workshop, and webinar. There will always be more.

    • Reach out if you need support.

    • Remember that progress is more important than perfection.

    Why this matters

    HuMindWise exists because soft skills will help improve our wellbeing and happiness at work, and soft skills need spaces to be practiced, not just talked about.We’re building something together, a place where work feels human again.By being here, you’re helping shape the kind of community we all wish we had.

    Welcome to the party! 🎉

    Need to report an issue?
    If you experience or witness a violation of this Code of Conduct, please reach out directly through the contact form, direct message, or by emailing [email protected]. We take concerns seriously and will handle them with care.

    Terms of Service

    Last Updated: 2/2/2025Welcome to HuMindWise! By accessing or using this website, humindwise.com, you agree to comply with the following Terms of Service ("Terms"). Please read these Terms carefully. If you do not agree to these Terms, you may not use this website.

    Purpose of this website

    HuMindWise is an informational website designed to provide information about our services, coaching, community, and other offerings. You can also sign up for newsletters, book consultations or coaching sessions, and contact us for various inquiries.

    Eligibility

    The services provided on this website are intended for adults aged 18 and older. By using this website, you confirm that you are at least 18 years old. If you are under 18, please do not use our website.

    Services and interactions

    By using our website, you may:

    • Sign up for newsletters for updates and information about HuMindWise.

    • Contact us for a call, coaching session, or more information.

    • Request changes to your personal data in accordance with our Privacy Policy.

    • Access resources as available on the website.

    • Interactions related to courses or community access occur off-site, and payments for these services happen through third-party platforms.

    Prohibited use

    You agree not to:

    • Engage in any spamming, harassment, fraudulent, or malicious activity.

    • Use any content from this site for malicious purposes, including but not limited to unauthorized distribution, reproduction, or modification.

    • Resources provided by HuMindWise are for personal use only. They may not be redistributed, shares, resold, or modified for commercial purposes.

    • Use our website in any way that violates any local, state, national, or international laws.

    No guarantees and disclaimers

    While HuMindWise provides expert coaching and resources to guide you in your professional development, individual results from our services may vary based on several factors, including effort, commitment, and actions taken. We do not guarantee specific results from the coaching sessions, as outcomes depend on personal circumstances. Any statements regarding potential outcomes are intended for illustrative purposes and do not constitute guarantees.The Company is not responsible for any decisions made by users based on our marketing materials or consultations. We also do not offer legal, tax, medical, or accounting advice, and we encourage clients to seek guidance from licensed professionals in those areas.

    Limitation of liability

    The Company shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or exemplary damages. In no event shall the Company's total liability exceed the amount paid by the Client for services under this agreement. The Company is not responsible for errors or omissions in the services, materials, or information provided.

    Intellectual property

    All content provided on HuMindWise.com is protected by copyright. The text on our website may be used under a Creative Commons license, provided that you attribute the content to HuMindWise and provide a link back to our website. However, any materials related to our coaching services, courses, or community cannot be reproduced, distributed, or used outside of services rendered to HuMindWise.

    Data collection and privacy

    We collect email addresses when users sign up for our newsletter or book a session. We do not collect any other personal data or use cookies. For a full explanation of how we collect, use, and protect your information, please refer to our Privacy Policy.

    Changes to terms of service

    We reserve the right to update or modify these Terms at any time. Any changes will be posted on this page, and the “Last Updated” date will be revised accordingly. We encourage you to review these Terms periodically.

    Dispute resolution and governing law

    This Agreement shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of the State of Michigan, USA, without regard to its conflict of laws principles. Any disputes, claims, or controversies arising out of or relating to this Agreement shall be resolved exclusively in the state or federal courts located in Michigan. The parties hereby consent to the personal jurisdiction of such courts and waive any objections to the convenience or propriety of venue in these forums.

    Contact information

    If you have any questions about these Terms of Service, please feel free to contact us at [email protected].

    Privacy Policy

    At HuMindWise, I am committed to protecting your privacy and ensuring that your personal data is handled in a safe and responsible manner. This Privacy Policy outlines the information I collect, how it is used, and your rights regarding your personal data.

    Information I collect

    I only collect email addresses when you sign up for our newsletter or book a meeting through my Cal.com link. You do not need to sign-up for the newsletter to receive a free resource, but if you do, only your email will be collected and added to our newsletter list.Additionally, if you join The Party community hosted on Heartbeat (course, event, and community platform), participate in a course or cohort, or attend events on that platform, Heartbeat may collect additional information, such as your username, password, profile details, event attendance, course participation, and payment details (if applicable). These are collected and managed according to Heartbeat’s own privacy practices.I do not collect any other personal data, nor do I use cookies on the HuMindWise.com website. However, Heartbeat and any linked platforms may use cookies or tracking technologies, and we encourage you to review their privacy policy for details on how they manage your data.

    Analytics

    We use TWIPLA, a privacy-first cookieless analytics tool, to understand how visitors interact with our website. TWIPLA operates in Maximum Privacy Mode, meaning it does not use cookies, track IP addresses, or collect personal data. All data is anonymized and aggregated only to improve website performance and identify improvement areas. The data is securely stored in Germany in ISO 27001-certified data centers and is never shared or sold. If you have questions about our analytics practices, contact us at [email protected].

    Additional Info on TWIPLA
    TWIPLA is a website analytics service that measures traffic on our website and collects general information from our website visitors. We create statistics to improve the experience of our website visitors. We never use cookies for this purpose. As a website operator using TWIPLA to conduct reach measurement, depending on the level of data protection we have activated, we may process information about the device you are using and its characteristics, information about technical characteristics of the website visit, the number of page visits and statistically relevant behavior of our website visitors. The technology does not use the collected data to identify individual visitors or to match the data with additional information about an individual user. Depending on the location from which you access our website, TWIPLA may not collect any information about the device you are using due to our technical settings.

    How I use your email

    Your email address is used for the following purposes only:

    1. Sending newsletters, updates, and occasional promotions related to HuMindWise. These promotions will only be related to our services or my recommendations, which are not sponsored or paid for at this time.

    2. Sending meeting invites, reminders, and relevant email and documents if you book a meeting with me through Cal.com or engage in coaching, courses, or community, or request info from me or access to a resource.

    3. If you join our community (The Party on Heartbeat's platform), or enroll in courses or attend events on the platform, your email address and any other personal details shared may be used for community interactions, course access, and related communication.

    4. I do not share your email address with third parties, and I will never sell or rent your email address to anyone. I value your trust in me and I am committed to maintaining the confidentiality of your data.

    How to unsubscribe

    You can unsubscribe from my newsletters at any time. Each newsletter contains an unsubscribe link at the bottom. Alternatively, you can contact me directly at [email protected] to unsubscribe.If you book a meeting with me or engage in coaching or courses, you can also unsubscribe from communication related to that at any time. If you join our community on Heartbeat, you may be able to manage communication preferences directly through your account settings on the platform.

    Email Retention and Purging

    I will keep your email address as long as you continue to engage with my newsletters. If you do not open any newsletters for 12 months, I may remove your email address from our list during a routine purge, whenever I remember to. You can also ask me to delete your email at any time by contacting me directly.If you ever reply to a newsletter, I may store your email in our Gmail storage for direct communication purposes, but I will not keep email addresses beyond what is necessary for our communications.

    Data Security

    We rely on the security measures provided by ConvertKit, Cal.com, and Heartbeat to protect your email address and any data you share with us. We do not store email addresses in our own database, and we do not export email lists to external systems.If you ever ask me to delete, update, or modify your data, I will respond as soon as I can and perform any requested updates.

    Compliance with privacy law

    We comply with the following privacy regulations to the extent applicable:

    1. GDPR (General Data Protection Regulation - EU) If you are a resident of the European Union, you have the right to request access to your personal data, request deletion of your data, or withdraw your consent for communications at any time. Please contact me directly to exercise these rights.

    2. CCPA (California Consumer Privacy Act - US) As a resident of California, you have the right to request deletion of your personal data. I do not sell your personal information, but you can request that we delete your email address or any data.

    3. CAN-SPAM Act (US) In compliance with the CAN-SPAM Act, I include an unsubscribe link in every email we send. You may unsubscribe at any time or contact me directly to manage your preferences. We also provide a physical mailing address in our emails, which is ConvertKit’s mailing address.

    Services intended for adults

    HuMindWise services are intended solely for adults (individuals 18 years or older). I do not intentionally collect personal data from minors. If you are under 18, please do not provide your email address or other personal information. By using our services, you confirm that you are an adult.

    Data storage location

    We use Kit, Cal.com, and Heartbeat for email services, meeting scheduling, and community/course management. While these services are primarily based in the US, I do not believe your email address or any data you share is stored outside of the US. If this ever changes, I will update our privacy policy accordingly.

    Your rights regarding your data

    If you would like to:

    1. Request information on what data we have about you

    2. Update your email or personal details

    3. Delete your data from our system

    4. Unsubscribe from our newsletters or other communications

    Please contact me directly at [email protected]. I will respond to your request as soon as possible.